Welcome to WildFaith's
Queer Spirituality Page.

In her book, Saving Jesus From Those Who Are Right, theologian Carter Heyward uses the word queer to mean "gays, lesbians, bisexuals, trangendered folk, and everyone standing in public solidarity with us."

This page is an ongoing collection of prayers, writings, and resources for queer people of all spiritualities and faiths.  Your thoughts and contributions to this page are welcomed.  Please contact me,
Darrell Grizzle, at gratefulbear@comcast.net


The Prayer in Honor of Those Whom Jesus Loved
(to the right)
is by Sister Joan Chittister, OSB, in response to the May 1999 decision by the Vatican to silence the ministry of Father Robert Nugent and Sister Jeannine Gramick to gays and lesbians, who are said in church documents to be "intrinsically disordered."


Queer Resources on the web:

Gay Spirituality and Culture
weblog featuring the Bear and other gay & lesbian bloggers

Whosoever
the online magazine for GLBT Christians -- very highly recommended

White Crane Journal
in which the Bear's writings
frequently appear

Gentle Spirit Christian Church in Atlanta
home of Pastor Paul, beloved "list daddy" of the Whosoever email group

Toby Johnson
Gay Spirit Visions
Healing Homosexuality
through self-acceptance
Rainbow Center (Jewish)
Q-Sangha (BuddhistInterfaith)
Christian Cock Brotherhood
About Spirituality
Spiritual Fruits Ministries
Integrity USA (Episcopal)
Spirituality and Soul Care
New Ways Ministry
Soulforce (Mel White)
Gay Buddhist Fellowship


Articles on the Web:

Declaration on the Role of Gay Men in the World
by Andrew Ramer

The Light at the Ocean Depths:
self-esteem and the roots of homophobia
by Carol Stabel

Spiritual Self Defense for GLBT Christians:
Responding Constructively to Persecution
by Candace Chellew


Click here to read
Declaration on the Role of Gay Men in the World by Andrew Ramer


Midnight Prayer by Darrell Grizzle

Save me, O God, from the temptation to be less than fully human, less than the child of God You created me to be.

Save me, O God, from the temptation to view my sexuality as a curse, rather than as a precious Gift with which You have blessed me.

Save me, O God, from those who seek to heal what does not need healing, who seek to further wound me by making me think I am a mistake, rather than made in Your image.

Save me, O God, from easy and simplistic theology, which seems to offer security but really offers shackles and blinds the soul from knowing You in all Your complexity, beauty, and wonder.

Save me, O God, from everything and everyone that would distract me or dissuade me from living into Your calling on my life.

Amen.

 


Prayer in Honor of Those Whom Jesus Loved
by Joan Chittister, OSB

Jesus who loved the Samaritan woman,
outcast proclaimer of your name,
let us love and support all those who proclaim
your name to the gay and lesbian community.

Jesus who loved the lepers
whom others called unclean,
let us see the glory of creation everywhere,
in everyone.

Jesus who loved the one condemned with him
and promised him heaven by virtue of his faith,
give us the faith to broaden our vision
of the reign of God.

Jesus who loved the hemorrhaging woman,
long ignored and thought to be intrinisically disordered,
give us hearts large enough to embrace
those whom the world calls bent.

Jesus who loved the tax collector the community feared,
enable us to put down our fear of those
who are different from ourselves.

Jesus who loved the Roman soldier,
foreigner and oppressor,
help us to love those who make exiles of
our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters.

Jesus who loves us in all our humanities, all our glories,
enable us to love those
whose glories we have failed to see.

You who called women disciples in a male world,
who confronted leaders of the synagogue
with their sins of injustice,
who sent out your disciples to the whole world,
give us the courage to stand with
our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters,
their familes and those who minister to them.
Give us the grace to confront their rejection,
to ease their loneliness,
to calm their fears, and
to belie their sense of abandonment.

Give us all the grace to own our sexual identity,
whatever its orientation,
as another manifestation of your goodness.
Give us the vision to recognize and reject
the homophobia around us and in our our own hearts, as well.

May we and the church of Jesus open
our hearts and homes and sanctuaries
to the gay and lesbian community,
to the glory of God they bring in new voice,
with different face.

Let us bless the God of differences.
Amen.
Garrison Keillor's response to a letter from a gay man with homophobic parents (Dec. 5, 2000, Salon.com):

You're grown up and you've made your own life and made your own family with your lover.  Your parents are in the background.  Don't make them the foreground.  Let them be vaguely benevolent figures whom you maintain a sweet but distant connection to and let them think whatever they think and feel what they feel.  Be grateful for what you have and don't worry about them until it's time to pick out a nursing home.  And then find one that's staffed by gay guys.



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If you dream of a world in which you can put your partner's picture on your desk, then put his picture on your desk and you will live in such a world.  And if you dream of a world in which you can walk down the street holding your partner's hand, then hold her hand and you will live in such a world.  If you dream of a world in which there are are more openly gay elected officials, then run for office and you will live in such a world.  And if you dream of a world in which you can take your partner to the office party, even if your office is the US House of Representatives, then take her to the party.  I do, and now I live in such a world.

Remember, there are two things that keep us oppressed:  them and us.  We are half of the equation.  There will not be a magic day when we wake up and it's now OK to express ourselves publicly.  We must make that day ourselves, by speaking out publicly -- first in small numbers, then in greater numbers, until it's simply the way things are and no one thinks twice.  Never doubt that we will create this world, because, my friends, we are fortunate to live in a democracy, and in a democracy, we decide what's possible.

Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin (Wisconsin), speaking from
the stage of the Millennium March on Washington
Politically Incorrect but fun
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